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Discipleship’s Nuts and Bolts
To
help you start or be all the more effective in your one-to-one
ministry, get a grip on the following 10 “nuts and bolts” of
discipleship. Study the passage listed after each idea to help you grab
hold of these practical principles.
- Major on being an encourager. As you listen to your friend, ask yourself how you can encourage him or her, offer practical support, and spur your friend on. Hebrews 10:24,25
- Realize that you are entering into a lifelong friendship. Your relationship will be foundational to all you hope to accomplish. Proverbs 17:17
Make sure you are well prepared. Get organized before you spend time together. Review the passages and illustrations you plan to share. 2 Timothy 2:15- Set the pace. You can’t take someone beyond where you yourself have gone. You can’t build solidly into someone else what is weak in your life. Philippians 4:9
- Modeling is the key to reproducing your life. Be transparent. Share your weaknesses and struggles as well as your strengths and victories. 1 Timothy 3:10, 11
- Repeat key principles. Make no apologies for going over familiar ground. The basics are basic—that’s why they’re called basics. Drive them home. Philippians 3:1
- Don’t “dump the truck” by telling your friend everything you know. Teach your disciple only what he or she needs to know at the present time. John 16:1-14
- Use illustrations. Try to draw a picture for all of the concepts you want to pass along. One picture really is worth a thousand words. Matthew 13:24,31,33,44,45,47
- Treat your disciple like an adult. Don’t talk down to him or her. Be a friend. 1 Peter 5:1-3
- Always focus on Christ. Relate all you do together to knowing Christ and making Him known. Point your friend to Jesus. Hebrews 12:2
Excerpted with permission from The Nuts and Bolts of One-to-One Discipling
by Tom Yeakley, from Dawson Media, a ministry of The Navigators. If you
would like to share this with a friend or your team, order 5-packs for
$5 each at www.dawsonmedia.com or by calling 1 (888) 547-9635.






